Wellbeing Wednesday – Respect
“How about we use our words to look after each other’s hearts?”– Kate Jane Neal, Words and Your Heart
Respect means showing care and consideration for yourself, other people, and the world around you. Respect can be shown through the words we use, the way we listen, and how we treat others.
In assembly on Monday, we read Words and Your Heart, where Kate Jane Neal reminds us that words have power. Kind words can help hearts grow stronger, whilst hurtful words can leave marks that are difficult to forget. When we choose our words carefully and treat others with kindness, we help create positive relationships and a happier community.
Learning to show respect can help us feel connected to others, build trust, and improve our mental wellbeing. It also helps everyone feel safe, valued, and included.
Our Tips for Respect
1. Think Before You Speak
Before you say something, ask yourself:
- Is it kind?
- Is it helpful?
- Is it respectful?
Words can stay with people long after they are spoken.
2. Listen with Your Whole Body
Show respect by giving someone your attention when they are speaking. Try to:
- Look at the speaker.
- Wait for your turn to talk.
- Listen to understand, not just to reply.
Everyone deserves to feel heard.
3. Fill Someone’s Heart with Kind Words
Think of someone important to you and share some kind words. You could say:
- I appreciate how you…
- Thank you for…
- I admire the way you…
- You helped me when…
Kind words can brighten someone’s day and strengthen friendships.
4. Respect Differences
People may look different, think differently, enjoy different things, or have different beliefs. Try:
- Learning something new about another person.
- Including someone in a game or activity.
- Celebrating what makes each person unique.
Respect means valuing differences, not judging them.
5. Show Respect to Yourself
Respect isn’t just about other people. Think about:
- Something you did well this week.
- A challenge you worked hard to overcome.
- A positive quality you have.
Remember, speaking kindly to yourself is just as important as speaking kindly to others.
What words would you like people to remember you for? Take a moment to think about the words you use every day. Are they helping hearts to grow? Respectful words, actions and choices help us build strong relationships and positive mental health.





