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Tips for wellness from our Mental Health In Schools Team

“Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” -Winston Churchill

Being Brave

We can show bravery in lots of different ways, such as recognising that we feel a certain way (e.g., sad, anxious), asking someone for help when we need it and trying new things, even if we feel scared!

Feeling scared is often a sign that we are doing something challenging and it is completely normal to feel this way. Even though it can feel uncomfortable, being brave and facing these difficulties can also help us to learn and grow (both physically and emotionally). This can mean we need to step outside our comfort zone at times to be able to overcome challenges, but it is important to remember that being brave does not mean we have to cope alone.

Our Tips for Being Brave:

1. Set yourself a goal to try something new. Create a plan to break your goal down into smaller, more achievable steps! This can help your goal to feel less overwhelming.
2. Take chances and make mistakes! Sometimes it is helpful to fail, so you can practise being brave. Try something you have been wanting to try and take that chance to move out of your comfort zone. You might even find that it wasn’t as bad as you thought it would be.
3. Practise positive self-talk to help develop your bravery. Repeat these sentences to yourself or out loud – ‘I can do hard things’; ‘ I try my best’; ‘I can enjoy challenge’. You might want to write positive statements on post-it notes and stick them around your mirror so you can remind yourself of them every day!
4. Ask for help when you need it from someone you trust. Taking the step to talk to someone is one of the bravest things you can do!
5. Strike a power pose! Standing up tall with your feet apart, your head held high and with your hands on your hips can help make you feel more confident and ready to take on a challenge. What pose makes you feel more confident?

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Tips for wellness from our Mental Health In Schools Team

“Your future depends on your dreams, so go to sleep.” — Mesut Barazany

Rest

It is important to work hard, stay motivated and set goals to achieve in life. It is also important to not overwork yourself and get enough rest to help manage your stress and unwind so you can stay motivated and prevent burnout in the long run.

Rest is vital for your mental health as it can improve your concentration, memory, critical thinking, and thinking, planning for the future, problem-solving, mood, immune system, reduce stress, and helps your body’s metabolism and physical recovery.

Rest can be difficult to define because it can look different for everyone. It can be anything physical or mentally stimulating that improves wellbeing such as going for a walk, singing, drawing, cycling, playing games, watching TV/streaming, exercising, playing sports, reading, dancing, listening or creating music, writing, crafting, relaxing or anything else you enjoy!

Our Top Tips For Rest

1. After you have done something important like studying, chores or homework, reward yourself by doing something enjoyable that helps you recharge.
2. Set aside enough time each day for hygiene. This can be showering, brushing teeth, washing hair. These regular activities can help you to relax.
3. Create a healthy sleep routine by avoiding caffeine or sugary drinks near bedtime, ensure you are warm and comfortable in bed and limit screentime.
4. Engage in some mindfulness or restful activity, such as meditation, reading, listening to calming music, podcasts or bedtime stories. The Calm App has lots of meditations, soundscapes and stories.

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Tips for wellness from our Mental Health In Schools Team

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.” Albert Einstein 

Change

Changes are a normal part of our lives and they affect us all in different ways. Some changes may feel small to you, but big to another person, and the opposite for a different change. For example, moving to a new class or school, moving homes, or starting a new club. They can feel exciting, but they can also feel overwhelming and stressful, especially when they are unexpected. Below are some tips to help you cope with changes that may feel hard for you.

Our tips for coping with change:

1 – Keep doing things you enjoy! When we feel stressed or worried, it can be easy for us to focus on the worries all the time and forget to do the things that make us happy. Make sure to plan in time at the weekends and evenings to do things you enjoy to help you relax and boost your mood!

2 – Think about what you can control. When a change is unexpected or overwhelming, we can feel a bit like we have no control over the situation or how it is making us feel. It can be helpful to think about what you do have control over in this situation. For example, we can’t control how the change makes us feel but we can control how we react to the situation and what we do following the change. Such as, staying connected with our friends and family, keeping to our daily routines, and planning ahead where we can.

3 – Look for the positives. While change can feel hard, there’s often something good that comes from it, even if it is not immediately obvious. Such as, new opportunities, new people or learning experiences. You might even surprise yourself and enjoy the change!

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Tips for wellness from our Mental Health In Schools Team

“The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside.” – Anne Frank 

Get Outdoors

Spending time outdoors is great for your body and mind! It can improve your mood, reduce feelings of stress, improve your confidence, helps you to be more active and can reduce loneliness.

How to get outside more:

1. Take a Nature Walk
   Find a park, trail, or even your garden and take a walk. Look around for birds, trees, and flowers that you can spot. You could try taking photographs and share them with a friend.
2. Play a Sport or Game
   Whether it’s football, netball or running, outdoor sports are a great way to get moving. They also help us develop our communication skills when we play as part of a team!
3. Do a Scavenger Hunt
   Make a list of things to find outside—like a particular leaf or a butterfly—and go on a hunt to find them!
4. Bring Your Hobby Outside
   Do you like drawing, reading, or listening to music? Try doing it outside! Find a comfy spot on the grass and enjoy your favourite activities in the fresh air.
5. Have a snack outside
   Try taking a snack outside and eating it while focusing on the food and what is going on around you.
6. Watch the Stars
   On a clear night, lie on a blanket and look up at the stars. You might even see a shooting star or spot constellations.
7. Meet up with a friend outside

It can be helpful to get outdoors every day, even if only for a short time. You could try walking to a friend’s house or to the shop instead of travelling by car or getting public transport. You could try to make getting outside part of your daily routine, whether it is riding a bike or sitting in a garden or park while you listen to music.

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Tips for wellness from our Mental Health In Schools Team

“It’s good to talk.” Bob Hoskins

Talking

We can’t always see when people are struggling, and people may not be able to see when we are struggling. We need to ask people how they are feeling, and we need to let them know how we are feeling so we can help each other.

There are people we can talk to if we are struggling; whether that be someone in our life already, such as a family member, a friend, or staff in school or college, or someone such as a mental health professional. Always try and speak to someone who you trust and someone who you feel will be able to help you.

There is no shame in wanting to speak with someone about your feelings, we all need to do
it sometimes, it is an action of bravery!

Our Top Tips For Talking

1. If you want to speak to someone but are struggling to, try writing your thoughts and
   feelings down or drawing a picture to show how you are feeling and giving this to
   someone you trust instead.
2. You can also agree to have a ‘safe word’ to use with someone too, which signals that you
   have something you would like to talk about. For example, you may agree with a family
   member or teacher that you will say ‘bananas!’ when you need a private chat. Make sure
   you say it so that they hear and notice it.
3. Draw your handprint and on each finger, write someone’s name who you could speak to
   if you needed to talk about something.
4. Try and write down a list of ways you could support someone if they were talking to you
   about worries or sad feelings they were having.
5. Remember, you are never a burden for asking for support…there is always someone who
   will want to help.

Follow this link for information on who you can talk to: Young Minds

Please contact [email protected] for information and advice about mental health and well-being for your child and your family.